Being in a LDR relationship isn’t cheap. in this small article we want to share some tips we’ve learned since we’re together.
- Travel costs
This is always the biggest part of the budget you’ll simply lose if you want to see your partner.
For us trainwise, we check out train tickets on the app for the Netherlands (NS) and the one from Belgium (NMBS). for some odd reason the exact same train can differ price wise, so always check for the cheapest ones.
2. Visit less. Stay longer.
Hear me out, this does not mean you can’t see each other for a long time. What Fleur and I do is make sure we plan so we can stay at least a full week together. which saves travel costs quite a bit. This also makes you less tired. Let’s face it, the day you arrive you’re actually lazy. You just want to cuddle.
3. Simplify meetups
This is a funny thing and something that comes natural. in the beginning you want to explore, visit everything, and so on and so on. you simply make it feel like a never ending holiday but this will change. It’s cool to do all types of activities. However, the essence of being in a relationship is simply enjoying each other’s company. right now I’m writing this while Fleur is in another room recording music and that’s fine. so for this tip, make a few “lazy” hangouts where you simply do the mature things of life. it’s also a great test for your relationship .
We hope these few tips will already help you guys out. Let us know if you want more tips on how we handle the costs. We might make a small video for it.
much love
Your favorite LDR couple